Hill and Carrie Stocking

Carrie Alva, daughter of Robert Tunks and Thirsa Hewitt, was born 1 October 1900 in Mosa Township, Middlesex County, Ontario. Her older brother Bill came up with her name. Carrie wondered many years later if her name was after one of his girlfriends.

As a kid, "I liked to make mud pies, and I learned to cook. I liked a lot of fun. I liked music." She liked music enough to learn how to play the accordion and the piano. Though Carrie never mentioned it (others did), she could play very well.

Her brothers (Bob, Harry, and Jim) used to take Carrie to school. In the winter, they would drag a sleigh with her and a friend on it. When she was big enough to roll out dough, she helped her mother in making pies.

"I worked in the telephone office, back in the old fashioned days, and I enjoyed it. I liked being with the other ladies around the phones, but I didn't like sitting. But I did like working in my dad's (basket) factory. We could make up lost time, go to the ball game, come back after supper, work it out, go to a party at night, us five girls in the car ..." 
It was while Carrie and her girlfriend were looking for someone to take them to a dance, when they came across two available dates. It was the drive to the Wardsville dance that Carrie got to know Hill. "I knew that he sprang from good parents, so one way or another we got together, just automatically." They courted by Hill's horse and buggy.

Carrie never mentioned it, but she first married Archie Patterson. He went off to the First World War and never returned to Carrie though he did survive the war.

Hillard Charles Stocking, son of Thomas Stocking and Bessie Pickett, was born 2 November 1900 at Euphemia Township, Lambton County, Ontario.

During a visit in 1987, Carrie said this about Hill's last name, "What a crazy name (Stocking). It might as well be Shoe! (chuckle) I never liked the name. (chuckle) But something about him I seemed to like. He was different than he is now. (chuckle) He had his own teeth, and he had hair ... sort of pliable then. (more laughter)." Carrie added, "Nowadays, I would make him take my name."

Carrie and Hill were married 22 December 1927 in the Temple Baptist Church at Windsor, Ontario.

They farmed for 40 years, mostly corn, wheat, oats - feed for cattle and pigs. And they had hens! Two to three hundred hens at a time and they were Carrie's responsibility.

They were blessed with two "beautiful" oil wells on their property. That was in 1948 with oil at $2 per barrel. There was an article in the Imperial Oil Review with their discovery, with the well producing 40 barrels a day. Known as "Dante No. 2", oil was found at 345 feet. When asked by a Toronto Daily Star reporter about her good fortune, Carrie replied, "People may say this prosperity is coming up out of the ground but the fact of the matter is that it is God's gift from above, and we are grateful for it."

With continued prodding, Carrie told the reporter with this money they could have "a nice new home". Hill on the other hand, talked of new farming equipment and updating his 15 year old car; they had won the lottery.

The well was found on their 10 acre plot that was bought by Hill's father in 1883. It didn't "last long, (but) awhile" said Hill.

They retired from their farm in 1967 and sold 330 hens to move into Bothwell, Ontario.

In their latter years, going to church, visiting, and puttering about the house were their activities. They would watch the 11 o'clock news, and then off to bed. In their last days, a little kitten entered their life. Carrie called it, "Kitty".

It was one cold morning in November when Carrie saw a little kitten shivering outside. She brought it home. The kitten was so small, and Carrie being a farmer's wife, knew that milk was too strong so she weakened it with water and dabbed her finger in the diluted milk so the kitten could lap it up.

This Kitty eventually went hunting for mice and birds, and brought its prize downstairs and to have his "banquet". Carrie would clean up the feathers. Carrie would also feed "normal kitten food".

However, it was Hill that the little kitten was fond of. It would spend hours rocking with Hill; in the cats mind, Carrie was only there to feed it.

They also had at one time, a terrier/beagle shorthaired dog and he was put down when it was almost 15 years old; "nice little fellow" said Carrie.

She enjoyed watching the ball games as a youth, and that interest continued throughout her life. When she had cataracts removed she enjoyed the ball games that much more.

Carrie died on 12 December 1988 and was buried in the West Bothwell Cemetery at Bothwell, Ontario.

Hill died on 26 February 1992. Reverend George Tunks assisted in the funeral service and internment was in the Bothwell Cemetery. The Heart and Stroke Foundation was one of the charities cited for donations.

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